Interesting. I used alcohol, thinking that would burst me through my self consciousness, and it did. However that “me” wasn’t real. The gift of creativity pushed me into the spotlight of theatre, of countywide presentations on various subjects, and women's groups. However, I seldom felt comfortable being in the spotlight. It carried a sense of responsibility with it , and an Inner circling around fear and lack. Food for the soul work.
Now I enjoy the silence, the openness, the inner connection of living alone, partnering with the ability to meet with a few dear friends to connect, to share, laugh and play.
You are so right about alcohol. I remember that being a good way to bring myself into a group event- at least apparently until the next day.
You also point to the different stages of our lives. in the Hindu model the householder stage seems to call for more extroverted participation, whether we like it or not.
Haha! Also married to an extrovert who fancies himself and introvert, but is totally not! Well, he's coming to terms with it now that he understands what introversion *really* demands!
I love your "grin and bear it" dilemma. Yes, what works for us is me staying home more and letting the husband do all the things. And, when I do go out, I sincerely enjoy it!
Thank you for broaching a very important topic, Heidi.
Interesting. I used alcohol, thinking that would burst me through my self consciousness, and it did. However that “me” wasn’t real. The gift of creativity pushed me into the spotlight of theatre, of countywide presentations on various subjects, and women's groups. However, I seldom felt comfortable being in the spotlight. It carried a sense of responsibility with it , and an Inner circling around fear and lack. Food for the soul work.
Now I enjoy the silence, the openness, the inner connection of living alone, partnering with the ability to meet with a few dear friends to connect, to share, laugh and play.
Perhaps I’m a midvert
Thanks, Anne.
You coined a new word for me- midvert☺️
You are so right about alcohol. I remember that being a good way to bring myself into a group event- at least apparently until the next day.
You also point to the different stages of our lives. in the Hindu model the householder stage seems to call for more extroverted participation, whether we like it or not.
What an interesting life you have lead!
Appreciate your comments.
Yup, still stuck in householdering midverting whether I like it or not!!! 🤣
So so sorry you are younger than I am, you poor thing😂
Ha!! I'll take it 🌞🤣💞
Haha! Also married to an extrovert who fancies himself and introvert, but is totally not! Well, he's coming to terms with it now that he understands what introversion *really* demands!
I love your "grin and bear it" dilemma. Yes, what works for us is me staying home more and letting the husband do all the things. And, when I do go out, I sincerely enjoy it!
Thank you for broaching a very important topic, Heidi.
Thanks for saying that being an introvert demands something! Sometimes the image is introverts just get to sit around drinking herbal tea and napping😂
it still surprises me how much energy even conversations I enjoy can take. And how much sleep I need!
it’s s good reminder how enjoyable the few outings we are drawn to can be.
Appreciate your comments💖
Hey, you're just like me. Must be why I enjoy your blog so much. 🤣❤️