Great article! "I don’t know" has been my principle for a while now. I have spent my younger years often being ashamed or embarrassed for not knowing something. I know today that this is based on trauma showing up as perfectionism, workaholism, "I'm not enough" approach to life, and so much other things. But more important than that, today I realize that when we say "I know", we are closing off for the wisdom of the Universe/God/Spirit. We are saying, I'm not open to receive, I am not interested to co-create. This is the reason I also moved from a management consultant (who is supposed to know it all and feed it to others) to a Systemic Constellation Practioner (who is supposed to say I don't know and leave it to the field to show up). Thank you!
Thank you, Natalia! I appreciate your articulating the need to know based in trauma. I check off all the things you listed! Funny because I also was a business consultant, although in my later career I tried to go in to companies to find out what was happening rather than tell them what was happening. I love both the opening to the wisdom of the Universe and leaving it to the field to show up- brilliant! Looking forward to crossing paths with you often!🙏
Thank you, Teri! Yes, I got nudged towards A, but it’s fantastic that you can see yourself from both perspectives. Defining ourselves can be so tedious😎 I value your comments!
Great article! "I don’t know" has been my principle for a while now. I have spent my younger years often being ashamed or embarrassed for not knowing something. I know today that this is based on trauma showing up as perfectionism, workaholism, "I'm not enough" approach to life, and so much other things. But more important than that, today I realize that when we say "I know", we are closing off for the wisdom of the Universe/God/Spirit. We are saying, I'm not open to receive, I am not interested to co-create. This is the reason I also moved from a management consultant (who is supposed to know it all and feed it to others) to a Systemic Constellation Practioner (who is supposed to say I don't know and leave it to the field to show up). Thank you!
Thank you, Natalia! I appreciate your articulating the need to know based in trauma. I check off all the things you listed! Funny because I also was a business consultant, although in my later career I tried to go in to companies to find out what was happening rather than tell them what was happening. I love both the opening to the wisdom of the Universe and leaving it to the field to show up- brilliant! Looking forward to crossing paths with you often!🙏
Wonderful Heidi! Wisdom rolling out. Much appreciated!
Thanks for your comment, Keith! I’m grateful for your input of ‘only don’t know’.
I love living in the I don’t know. I would have picked both A and B. A great subject to not defining yourself all the time. Love your posts❤️
Thank you, Teri! Yes, I got nudged towards A, but it’s fantastic that you can see yourself from both perspectives. Defining ourselves can be so tedious😎 I value your comments!
Only Don't Know...truer words have never been spoken!
It's all unfolding perfectly!
Parties or puppies...WHO cares!? I'll just be over here, dancing barefoot on the ego's grave.
Love your posts, Heidi!
Yes, please keep dancing! I will join you. Just going along for the ride 🥳
Thanks as always for reading and commenting!